That she wasn't willing to trust me enough to meet her at a restaurant with it being just the two of us was my first red flag. And the romance "GAME" why play it at all? If I ever start to chat with a guy, I ask him to coffee after 1 week so I can know if we are compatible right the way. I am not born a romantic. I married a woman who I simply realised was who I could trust, would be a fantastic mother, a great lover but to be blunt is not the most intelligent woman I have ever met. Problem is, we have not yet developed any sort of vocabulary to describe what's going on in our hearts. If people can't appreciate me for who I am, I'd rather not pursue a relationship with them.
INTJs are bewilderingly deep and intelligent people, bringing stability and insight into their romantic relationships.
Janainthegarden not verified says ISTJ not verified says But when it comes to emotional satisfaction, INTJs are simply out of their element. So for goodness sake, remember your anniversary. Flirting always felt so artificial; I never could make sense of it! They want to constantly improve their game and continually get their partner off in better, more creative ways. While their self-confidence and esteem is attractive, their lack of sensitivity to others can be a problem if it causes them to inadvertantly hurt their partner's feelings.